During the course, my friend David Lesondak shared with me an
amazing concept- that we need to
practice being joyful. I thought that this was a remarkably brilliant insight
The nervous system is designed to adapt to anything you do
frequently as a "new normal." This can have negative consequences if
you look at people are who routinely miserable. As a thought experiment, think
about the last time you were at the Divison of Motor Vehicles. It's a miserable
environment, everyone hunches their shoulders, and there is a palpable tension
in the room. Now imagine being like that all time- that would be a horrible
"new normal."
Instead, imagine trying to practice a "new normal" by
practicing being joyful. Here's a simple exercise- extend your hands overhead
like you just crossed the finish line of a marathon. Didn't that make you feel
better? I don't think it's possible to put your arms overhead in a victory
position and be in a bad mood.
I don't think this is just psycho-babble- I think it reflects a
real neurologic phenomenon. Paul Ekman did some ground breaking research that
demonstrated that if you have a person put their face in a smiling position,
their mood will improve. I think that this is true of the body as a whole as
well- if you place your body into the position of happiness, you will feel happier.
I've noticed this when I work on some strengthening exercises in
my patients. I often work on them to strengthen their posterior chain (muscles
behind their back like the thoracic paraspinals) and stretch their anterior
chain (muscles in the front of their body, like the pectoralis minor), and an
interesting ancillary phenomenon is that most of them notice that they are
noticably happier. It happens almost instantaneously. I don't think this is an
accident- by training their muscles so that they can literally walk taller,
they also figuratively walk taller- they become happier.
And so do I.
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